Breakups are never easy. Dale Moss announced his split from fiancé and former Bachelorette Clare Crawley on January 19. Since then, they both have enduring the pain and rumors their broken engagement has caused. It took Clare a bit to speak out on their split. Once she did she’s admitted she’s trying to be more vulnerable and put her feelings out there. Dale has also been opening up more about the pain he is feeling himself over their breakup. His latest video came January 30 in an Instagram Live session. Dale showed deep emotion as he tearfully told his followers how much pain he’s enduring.
Dale Moss opens up to fans for a third time
E! shared all the details about Dale’s Instagram Live session. And, since the video was live it was not saved on Instagram. However, fans can check out the video by clicking here. In a very heartfelt, emotional speech from Dale, he admitted to shaking as he talked. He said, “I talk so much with family and friends about everything that’s gone on. The situation with Clare, it’s f–king sucked, you know.” Dale continued, “And I think everyone looks for a right answer and a right way to handle these things… and there really isn’t one.”
Dale continued talking to fans as tears slid down his cheek. He said, “This has been a learning experience for me, as someone…who’s had to provide for everybody all the time, for friends, family, and if I was hurting, not even having an option to keep going.” He continued, “This has f–king rocked me. I felt so many emotions and so much guilt, but also so much confusion and so much hurt.” At one point he stopped talking to wipe tears away with his shirt.
He acknowledged Clare is hurting too
Dale also went on to say that he is not the only one hurting. He said Clare is also enduring much pain. He also said they both tried to figure out how to make things better even before their split was announced. Dale said life isn’t perfect and everyone makes mistakes. He then talked about his “Pops” and said he would always say you have to hurt before you can heal. Dale said, “I’ve been f–king hurting a lot.”
He said he had gotten so numb. He continued saying he wants to feel again and not be alone. Dale said, “The smallest thing can cut you the deepest, and I think about this year just with everything that’s gone on.” He continued, “and act like everything’s OK, but f–k, we all go through it and I think the biggest thing is knowing that’s OK. And you can’t do everything, you can’t be everything for everybody.
Dale kept going in his emotional 11 minute post saying, “The things people go through is real. Understanding that what I’ve learned in this situation… Even if you feel low, it does get better. I think a lot about what I’ve wanted out of life. What I used to want and how things have changed so much this year. I just feel f–king wrecked and I thought the things that would make me feel better, the things I thought would make me feel better ended up making me feel worse.”
Dale Moss admits to making mistakes
The former NFL player said he knows he’s made mistakes. And, he’s man enough to own up to that. He said he’s trying to put his pride aside and pray more. He wants to make the best decisions moving forward. Dale also said it’s all about doing what makes you happy. He said his heart has been heavy, especially over the past week. Doing things he thought would make him feel better actually made him feel worse.
Dale concluded his tearful message thanking those who have supported both him and Clare. He said, “I know she has been f–cking going through it, and whatever the case, I know that we will figure this out together whatever it is.”
Dale is currently in Florida while trying to heal his heartbreak. He said he needed a break from New York City.
The original message posted by Dale announcing their split has since been deleted. Could they work things out in the future?
Stay tuned for more updates.