Recently, both Jill Duggar and Derick Dillard have offered marriage advice to their fans. They have posted blogs about their marriage on the Dillard Family website, which is a blog that they share. On their website, they also share family photos, updates, and other types of Christian advice.
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💐🥰We had a wonderful 5yr. anniversary weekend in Branson, MO! We stayed at a bed and breakfast, then hung out at Silver Dollar City part of the time and saw our friends @southernraisedbandmusic perform. 🎻 . . 😃Derick surprised me with an amazing dinner (& lovely view!) @thekeetercenter at #collegeoftheozarks 🌼 (highly recommend! Such a neat place! 🙌🏻) #hardworku @sierrasaffle . . . 💕Thanks @datingdivas for the fun games and ideas! If you don’t know about them, check them out!! They’ve got lots of fun, clean, date/marriage tips and ideas! ❤️ . . 😄We ended our trip with a fun afternoon at the movies watching #toystory4 lol 👫 . . 👵🏻🧓🏼👦🏼👶🏻Thanks @cldilla & Bawpaw for keeping the boys! . . (📚 Note: We are not recommending the Kama Sutra. We believe marriage is ordained by God and husbands and wives should filter everything they read and hear together through the lense of the Bible and not practice anything unbiblical. The little book pictured is a modern, smaller, cleaner, edited version that doesn’t focus on spiritual aspects, homosexual, or other extramarital relationships, and again, we don’t take everything in there either as the truth. It is always good to be aware and careful of what we allow into our minds, hearts and marriages. We’ve not read the actual Kama Sutra and only promote biblical marriage (i.e. between a man and woman who are married). We just wanted to clarify since there has been a lot of discussion after this post.❤️)
Fans have had a pretty strong reaction to both of their recent marriage advice posts. As a result, fans have a lot to say about the advice being shared.
In June, Jill shared a post titled “More Than Sex: How To Love Your Husband“. In her post, she detailed all of the things that she thinks wives should do for their husbands. Although there are many tips on this list, a few of them stuck out more prominently to Counting On fans. For example, Jill talks about typically taboo topics, such as sex and lingerie.
Just a few days ago, Derick published his own blog post similar to Jill’s. His is titled “Hot Love: How to Love Your Wife Like You Mean It“. In his post, he follows the same format that Jill did. He talks about having plenty of sex and making time for your wife. He offers a variety of tip for marriage.
Fans noticed that Derick suggests having sex five to six times per week. One fan commented on Jill’s Instagram post asking about this. The fan was confused because it is a common assumption that the Duggar family doesn’t use birth control. Now, fans are speculating that Jill might be on birth control, contrary to popular belief.
Jill Duggar and Derick Dillard ‘never be alone’ with opposite gender
In Derick’s blog post, he made a point and wrote, “Regularly discuss ways you can help each other feel more secure in your relationship and then do it!”
Then, he explained what this means. He said, “For example, it is really important to both of us that we have some kind of internet filtering service on our phones and laptops, so we decided to pay for a monthly Covenant Eyes filtering subscription and also limit some accessibility on our devices to help us be accountable to each other. We also share our social media passwords with each other.”
He continued, saying, “Another thing we purpose to do is to never be alone in the same room with someone of the opposite gender. Sometimes this is hard and requires more intentionality. For example, if I have a private meeting with a female, I may choose to leave the door open, or if Jill needs a repairman to come work on something at the house when I’m gone then she might invite a friend over while he’s there.”
Finally, Derick adds, “We realize though that safeguards alone aren’t enough…it is more about the heart and commitment to purity, but they may be helpful in reducing the prevalence of some situations, or even just the appearance of evil.”
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