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‘The Bachelor’ Bekah Martinez Begins Therapy With Baby Daddy

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Bekah Martinez fought for Arie’s heart on The Bachelor. While she didn’t win, she did find a love of her own. Shortly after they got together she learned she was expecting a baby. Life hasn’t been picture perfect for Bekah ever since.

The Bachelor Star Learns How to Parent

Bekah will be the first to admit, being a parent isn’t easy. According to US Weekly, she became unexpectedly pregnant just three months into her relationship with her current boyfriend. While it might look like everything is perfect on social media, the pictures paint a better idea than the truth.

“This man is wonderful. And handsome. And a great dad. I love him so much, but there’s so much you don’t see that goes on behind the Instagram scenes,” she wrote on Instagram. “I think it’s easy to look at our photos together and think we transitioned seamlessly into a life with each other, and that couldn’t be further from the truth.”

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This man is wonderful. And handsome. And a great dad. I love him so much, but there’s so much you don’t see that goes on behind the instagram scenes. I think it’s easy to look at our photos together and think we transitioned seamlessly into a life with each other, and that couldn’t be further from the truth. Getting unexpectedly pregnant only three months into a relationship isn’t all fun and games. Actually, it’s mostly tears and arguments (or at least that was our experience). Don’t get me wrong, I’ve never been happier than I am now. I couldn’t think of a better person to be my partner or the father of my child, but dealing with the stress of an unplanned pregnancy with someone you barely know is ROUGH. We’re still getting to know each other now; we skipped past the whole dating phase and haven’t had much time to talk about things that aren’t baby-related. All that being said, we’re starting therapy together and I’m looking forward to where the future takes us. This post is just meant to be a reminder that everyone has issues. Nothing is as perfect as perceived, and ALL relationships have struggles.

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Getting used to another adult and a new baby at the same time can’t be an easy task. As she brought up herself, raising a baby with someone you know is very stressful. Bekah said that the couple actually started going to therapy together. It’s so awesome that they are working so hard to be the best parents they can be.

She posted about this because she wants her fans to know that every single relationship has struggles. It doesn’t always matter what the posts look like.

“All that being said, we’re starting therapy together and I’m looking forward to where the future takes us. This post is meant to be a reminder that everyone has issues. Nothing is as perfect as perceived, and ALL relationships have struggles,” she wrote in her post.

Bekah from The Bachelor did have her baby earlier this year and she is incredibly cute. She’s been working hard to be a great mom and shutting down many different mommy shamers along the way. She’s been posting some REALLY cute photos of her and her new baby. Including one where they are even in matching outfits. It doesn’t get much more adorable than that!

What do you think of Bekah’s thoughts on her new baby? Let us know in the comments and be sure to watch the new season of The Bachelor starting in May!

Haley Cook

Haley is a recent IU grad with a degree in journalism and apparel merchandising. She loves to indulge her guilty pleasures by watching or writing about reality TV. In her free time, you can find her wandering around IKEA looking for cool furniture or playing with her cat Bagel.
Haley Cook

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1 Comment

  1. This Bekah must have been from the first Arie “Bachelor”. I don’t recall 2 Beccas on the second Arie…….
    Oh well. I’m happy for her. she seems to be happy and that’s what matters.

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